Tuesday 29 March 2011

MARCH towards RICHES with BIG THINKING!!



Hello Friends,

Today's blog is dedicated to your MARCH towards RICHES, the advice that you will get from people on your way to the top and a MAGIC that will happen in your life if you start THINKING BIG.  

Do you believe there is a magic in thinking BIG as professor David says?

I will give you an example.

How India got her Independence?
A man came Mr. Gandhi who believed BIG and different too that we can win Independence  without any fighting. The entire nation BELIEVED in him and we got our freedom.

If you think that was not magic I ask you to pick any two people you know and make them work in harmony for unlimited length of time in whatever you BELIEVE is POSSIBLE. Soon you will find the challenges coming in your way and will see how difficult it is to manage people.

In IT industry it is difficult for a manger to manage a team of 10 people. It is difficult for a CEO to manage a team of few thousands people; but on the contrary it was so easy for Mr. Gandhi to BELIEVE BIG and make the entire nation work in harmony for one common GOAL.

The difference lies in one's thinking; few can THINK BIG whereas some cannot.

No one can make you RICH, people can only tell you to THINK BIG (most of the time it is opposite); it is your own mind that can make you RICH. If we don't use it properly and forget to believe we will only go through failures or stay where we are for the rest of our life.

I don't want that and I BELIEVE you too THINK the same. 

I BELIEVE we are born twice
1) The day a life is born 
2) The day the mind opens up and breaks all walls that the society has put in his mind and he begins to BELIEVE IN SELF. He BEGINS to BELIEVE that he has got the POWER to write his own DESTINY. That is the only rebirth I believe. The old religions said that he was an atheist who did not believe in God. The new religion says that he is an atheist who does not believe in himself. 

The challenge is required in only one thing. How big you can think and how much do you BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU THINK. There should be no doubt in your mind when you THINK BIG. If the BIG THINKING is mixed with doubts, confusions or skepticism the magic is not going to work. It only works when you THINK BIG and without mixing any emotion of the negative mind and you have to retain that thinking until the mental energy has been transformed into its physical equivalent.

These negative emotions are not your own but these are the advices that you will get from people all around you.

 As Napolean Hill says - “The majority of people who fail to accumulate money sufficient for their needs are, generally, easily influenced by the 'opinions' of others. They permit the newspapers and the 'gossiping' neighbors to do their 'thinking' for them. 'Opinions' are the cheapest commodities on earth. Everyone has a flock of opinions ready to be wished upon anyone who will accept them. If you are influenced by 'opinions' when you reach decisions, you will not succeed in any undertaking, much less in that of transmuting your own desire into money.”

You will find - It is easy to believe for one second that you want a Ferrari and forget the next moment if you meet with temporary defeat. That is what the majority of men do, they quit at the very next difficulty. They give up their belief on the very first sign of failure. Winners never quit and quitters never win. It is easy to think big for a moment but the challenge is to THINK BIG ALL THE TIME until it becomes an all consuming passion for you.

What matters is do you give more importance to your decision of THINKING BIG or to the opinions that everyone showers on you or to the temporary defeat that comes on your way. Only you can THINK BIG AND BRING A CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE. BELIEVE me nobody is going to go inside your mind and then make you THINK BIG and GO RICH. If you want a Ferrari it has to be YOUR DECISION FIRST.

Only the path can be shown but it is you and you alone who has to BELIEVE and then walk on it. As I always say Success comes by choice and not by chance - whether you want a Ferrari or maruti for the rest of your life, the choice is yours.


To summarize
1) Start THINKING BIG and BEGIN TO BELIEVE without any doubt. Let every nerve and every drop of blood in your body be filled of BIG THINKING and BIG THINKING ALONE.

2) Stop taking opinions from people all around you (My first blog – These are the people for your entertainment). You don't need any free advice. If you really love opinions and cannot live without them; take from people who already have what you want or who think like you.

3) Once you have made a decision BE COMMITTED, anyone who has gone to RICHES are committed to their decisions. Often people call then stern, obstinate but I tell you in truth only these people GO RICHES!! (I personally do not know anybody who has gone rich and is easily influenced by others)

4) Let people gossip, Success is the best revenge - Keep Marching!

Stand up and fight and MAKE A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF that you are going to BELIEVE and THINK BIG and LIVE YOUR DREAM LIFE IN REAL and not in REEL.

Meet you at the Beaches and Mountain TOPS of the world.

Your Friend,
Nikhil Bhatia


3 comments:

  1. Hey Nikhil,

    Nice blog , keep it up, Nice motivational lines but i think you need to some more analysis before making any comments.

    As far as Gandhi is concerned ,I don't agree with you, Read some more books and news paper before commenting about this.
    I don't agree with you for the line ...

    "we can win Independence without any fighting. The entire nation BELIEVED in him and we got our freedom."

    Once read more details about Gandhi and others ,you will refrain urself from saying this.

    Big Thinking is important to give directions to every next small step you take in your life.
    Success of every small step is important to achieve your target , no matter how many times you fail but these smaller steps are the key to success.
    So don’t forget to pick your happiness while searching for a Mirage of “Success” .

    I think you are confused with the word "Success and RICH" , to me it seems that your Criteria for Success is only Money ( I don't live with this feel).

    "Success is not counting your billions , in fact it is achieving new targets",

    Success is not a single Goal , it is a Habit.
    It's an all-round performance of life and measured not in terms of Gold Coins but number of True Cordial connection you have made.

    Kalaam is not a millionaire but lives in the Heart of good thinkers, He is not as rich as others are but he is successful …..

    Win your friends, Live Meaningful, Joyful and Healthy Life , For me that is the only way to success and most of my decisions end in a single question that if my step can disturb my Health, Wealth and Joy ? Very easy to take a call :).

    When we look back in our Life, we always cherish the moment which brought smile to ppl around us, we don't even remember how much money we made/loose but we remember how much we laughed . In the end you are gonna enjoy only that laugh.


    So i would like to read from your side about the basic behavior, Team work , Commitment, work-life balance, Making Friends, How your views can improve my next 6 months life.

    If you can make that good. definitely I'll try to think beyond 6 months and will build a bigger dream by your road map.


    Waiting for your next blog.

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  2. Hi Sachin,

    Thanks for the comments :) actually I need them so that I can improve

    I truly agree with what you say. My idea was that the nation did believed in Gandhi and followed his belief and he did control a lot of people (actually Hitler controlled a lot people too but his BIG thinking was wrong so did not gave his example hehe :)), Will do some more research on Gandhi and correct the blog if necessary. and I hope you got my point, the idea is to let the reader know that you can control your surroundings if you control your thinking.

    I have taken your point and will study in deep.

    This blog is particularly dedicated to people who want to be millionaire so when I say BIG it means MONEY.

    When I say success it becomes $$$$ :)

    Although I know that it is true that success has different meanings for different people.

    For some it is happiness, for some nice family for others it is MONEY and for some it is spiritualism etc..

    As you know I am very influenced by the 2 books
    Think and Grow Rich - Napolean Hill
    The Magic of Thinking BIG - David (still reading it)

    so mostly I talk only about MONEY and that is why I named the blog - The Millionaire Inside You because I BELIEVE almost anyone can BE RICH.

    and Thanks for giving me new topics about team work, work-life balance etc... and instead of making friends you should be making girl friends hehe :)

    Cheers!!
    Nikhil Bhatia

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